A few years ago my brother and I had a dedicated server running at my house. It all worked wonderfully. We are back now to play some more. My server (either dedicated or started on our own's PC's via the start server command in ROF) gets started and shows up in the public MP list but no one is able to join. We are able to join already existing public servers in the list so we know we have our firewall ports opened correctly (at least outgoing). We both added port forwarding entries to our routers point o the the machine where dserver was running.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what else to check?